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In this video men's style, grooming, fitness and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino of http://www.iamalpham.com http://www.aaronmarino.com and http://www.peteandpedro.com, talks about sex, virginity and confidence.
So, the other day Alpha got an email from an 18 year old virgin whose confidence is being affected because he thinks that women aren't going to be interested due to his lack of sexual experience.
Alpha issues a disclaimer that he's not recommending premarital sex and not a sex or relationship expert. He just has had an applicable experience.
Alpha tells his story about his virginity and how he first had sex which was uneventful and a disappointment. He regretted it because he wished it was with someone he cared about. He also talks about society, social media, and how sex is portrayed currently. He thinks that sex should not be shared casually. It's special and should be shared with someone you love.
Your virginity is not something that you lose. It's a gift you give away-- and you can only give it away one time! You don't need to worry about what others are doing or reporting on social media. Having sex doesn't make you cool. Let it happen naturally. When it happens, it happens. In the meantime, build yourself to the best person you can. Sex can have lots of repercussions. And if someone doesn't want to date you because you are a virgin or you want to remain a virgin, they aren't worthy of your gift
I lost my virginity at 15, I don't exactly regret it as me and the girl I were with ended up having a more than a year long relationship, and I did love her. I know that isn't long when it comes to adults but for a relationship between teenagers, I think that was long. I do sort of feel like I shouldn't have lost it that young though.
Look, I'm 19 1/2 and still a virgin and most of my friends have lost their virginity already and I felt self-conscious about it. I was 16 when I started to get jealous of their stories of losing their virginity, it was of course until I heard one of them talk about how he had almost knocked up a girl by not wearing a condom and her not taking her birth control. It was also until I realized that maybe I want to wait until I meet someone who I connect with and who likes me for me, not to mention it is also a good time to really focus on myself in the emotional and physical aspects of my life( job, car, good income, possibly school etc...) I also look back at my parents and their struggles because my parents had me in their teens.
The point is that just because others are doing it(figuratively and literally) doesn't mean you should too. It's all about peer-pressure, if you know it's probably not the best time or the most convenient, don't do it. Really think it through. Think about it this way: the person who you're going to sleep with, do you really like or love them that much that you're willing to possibility ruin your life and theirs. In conclusion, it's best to wait for the right moment than it is to rush it and possibly stunt your love life or your life life.
Food for thought my peeps.
Here our virgins stand
From all around the world
Waiting in a line
To hear the battle cry
All are gathered here
Victory is near
The sound will fill the hall
Bringing power to us all
We alone are fighting
For women that is true
We only ride to live the fight
We're here for all of you
Now swear the blood upon your steel
We'll never try
Stand and fight together
Beneath the virgin sky
Raise your hands into the air
We're virgins, virgins of the world
I lost my virginity at age 20! Don’t feel mad it comes naturally also don’t ever pressure the girl or woman to have sex with you. If you do failure is certain. It comes naturally when you’re dating someone. If you’re just out looking for some action good luck! Have a lot of confidence in you’re self in who you are moms raised a soldier not a bitch!!! Good luck to you the virgins.
If I could just squander no single thought nor let me be disturbed by such a thing, I wouldn't even care if I die as a virgin. Rather, I'd be focusing more on other aspects of my life.
Any tips on how to be OK with being a virgin?
I never had a girlfriend or kissed a girl or sex I have a lot of chicks at high school wanting to fuck me and even touching me and shit but I guess I’m waiting for the right women. Good things happen when you take things slow.
Thank you ☺️ I now don’t worry about it now and will tell my friends the truth of who I am and what I’m about and that these females most of them don’t deserve my seed :) thank you man I felt ashamed a bit and now I don’t thank you so MUCH 🙏🏼
I dont care about it really... what concerns me is that I keep running into chicks who just want to hook up or have a short term relationship or fuck on a first date if I do not want to do that... If I do not show them in some way that I want my dick inside them (preferably in first 15 minutes), they just ghost me. Like.. I have things I need to work on.. my "women skills" are not that sharp lately, but still.
I’m 14 and just started talking to a shortie. Got her IG just yesterday, right before the Christmas break, and after like 120 mins of me waiting after after school, I messaged her and she replied like 👏. Good signs I think but idk
Man, I'm almost 21 and the only women I've kissed so farth are Marry Jane and Lucy. Now, I'm absolutely head over heals and this girl is leaving after just 1 semester, man, she is soo awesome. And all I do is get stoned and watch YouTube, man, I wana di something!
I lost my virginity at 14 and I have to say really honestly I wish I had waited. I'm a guy and it was really unenjoyable and even painful. I would say 18 or even later is better, I'm not ashamed that I lost it early, but when I talk to young people I tend to point them in the direction of waiting. Do other stuff, but the sex stuff should be at least reserved for college imo. Sex should be enjoyable and the participants should know what they're doing at least somewhat.
18, huh? Wow.......what a failure. I'm 41 personally and have yet to do the deed. Not that I will.That ship sank before it sailed. But I wanted to at least leave a comment and point out howsilly it is for someone to give sex advice, when they had no problem finding dates at a young age.If I could get even one date, I'd have a chance. And if I could get one date, chances are that I could get two.But when you're rejected from the start, it's a completely different situation. And I'm not sure if you understand that.
this fat girl i was trying to pity fuck came within 30 minutes to coming over to my house while no one was home, and something inside me said this is wrong, give it up, you will regret this for the rest of your life; and only a few days later I met the girl im talking to now, and I really want to take things slow and when the time comes, we have both established we want our first times to be with eachother. Thanks again for your alpha male tips brozay
Sex doesn't count with a condom. So if you think you're a badass because you had sex with a hooker at a young age but used a condom.. I've got bad news for you.. you're still a virgin. There literally is no touching with a condom. They're basically teasing you when they make you wear a condom then they will go and fk another dude without a condom so that means that dude got to have sex with her first bc he didnt wear a condom and you did.
Every one has always told me this not to lose it to someone that you don’t even care about and I’m 18 and so far I’ve had 2 chances to lose my shit but honestly I think I might just wait for a person I really want to lose it to
20 years of age and still a virgin.
Only one I know of that still is within my cirlce of friends.
I'm good looking, I know I am I get plenty of feedback, I'm charming, funny and all that good stuff.
Only problem I dont like people. I'm as introverted as heck, not in a low self-esteem way but just in 'I dont like people'
They annoy me in every possible way. So meeting new people is not a challenge because I'm shy or anything but because I'd have to leave my save-space.
That being said I actually dont really care about my sexual life. If some day something happens well then something happens.
Be it the right one.
Until that day, I'll continue to touch myself.
I look at it this way; can you or can't you have sex. I'd rather be the guy who can turn down sex over the guy who won't have a chance in hell. Suppose you can say celibacy or the new term incel arethe two extremes to describe having sex or not. A guy who has dated girls and maybe less than a handful came on to you, but you chose to say no in my opinion is far more satisfying the the guy who approaches a girl to be shot down, shot down, and shot down. Suppose this topic is very much different from one to another. Long story short. Can you turn down sex or be dated or can you not and options are far and wide between.
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