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I'm A Virgin | Let's Talk About Sex, Virginity, And Confidence

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Topli Naćos (1 minute ago)
no sponsor? XDXDXD
Arsj Khan (1 hour ago)
Love love love brother 💝👍
Arsj Khan (1 hour ago)
Well said as always.... You are a good mentor as always
ozone! (20 hours ago)
I lost my virginity at 15, I don't exactly regret it as me and the girl I were with ended up having a more than a year long relationship, and I did love her. I know that isn't long when it comes to adults but for a relationship between teenagers, I think that was long. I do sort of feel like I shouldn't have lost it that young though.
Jimmy Hopkins (1 day ago)
Don’t really understand why people think less of you if you’re a virgin. Okay you had sex, good luck with your fucked up life paying child support at 16
Matthew Burns (2 days ago)
I’m 19 and still a virgin
Jeff Wood (3 days ago)
I am a virgin, i am 15, i never touched a girl, i wish i wasn't single at least
Bond (5 days ago)
This is such an old video but I agree with the gift statement 👍
Wackle (5 days ago)
I am a 278906 y o virgin and I am proud!
Xander Michels (5 days ago)
pff... 18? i am 22 turning 23 still haven't lost my virginity because i never lose :D also going for nofap cause i wanna see if it has health benefits
Gerardo Herrera Jr (5 days ago)
Team no kids Unite 👊
Bubble Butt (5 days ago)
This comment section alone already gives me my confidence back. Good to know Im not the only one, also 18 over here and never had a girlfriend or sex lol
Alexander Zurba (5 days ago)
I'm 33, and I never did it, I'm a virgin, but I'm okay with it, it's no competition, I believe when you're ready do it, right?
Michael Schofield (5 days ago)
Thanks for making this video
Bruno Qirim (6 days ago)
I’m as old as the pyramids and I’m still a virgin, I’m about to smash this weekend. Y’all pray for your nigga !
Patrick Conroy (6 days ago)
Tip: If you're a virgin and you feel the need to lose it, just buy a prostitute. Otherwise you may get latched onto some complete psycho and lose a year or more of your life. I did. It's not worth it.
Enrique Garcia (6 days ago)
Look, I'm 19 1/2 and still a virgin and most of my friends have lost their virginity already and I felt self-conscious about it. I was 16 when I started to get jealous of their stories of losing their virginity, it was of course until I heard one of them talk about how he had almost knocked up a girl by not wearing a condom and her not taking her birth control. It was also until I realized that maybe I want to wait until I meet someone who I connect with and who likes me for me, not to mention it is also a good time to really focus on myself in the emotional and physical aspects of my life( job, car, good income, possibly school etc...) I also look back at my parents and their struggles because my parents had me in their teens. The point is that just because others are doing it(figuratively and literally) doesn't mean you should too. It's all about peer-pressure, if you know it's probably not the best time or the most convenient, don't do it. Really think it through. Think about it this way: the person who you're going to sleep with, do you really like or love them that much that you're willing to possibility ruin your life and theirs. In conclusion, it's best to wait for the right moment than it is to rush it and possibly stunt your love life or your life life. Food for thought my peeps.
Here our virgins stand From all around the world Waiting in a line To hear the battle cry All are gathered here Victory is near The sound will fill the hall Bringing power to us all We alone are fighting For women that is true We only ride to live the fight We're here for all of you Now swear the blood upon your steel We'll never try Stand and fight together Beneath the virgin sky Brothers everywhere Raise your hands into the air We're virgins, virgins of the world
KirkeGaming (6 days ago)
24 Virgin here
Lil Notoriginal (6 days ago)
everyone braging about being 20+ and virgin😂😂😂
Ayşegül Şafak (6 days ago)
wow, mrs. alpha man!
46 year old virgin here, and I never kissed a girl either. You virgin gentlemen will get to a point where it wont matter anymore
the knight (6 days ago)
You are strong man
Kape Skies (7 days ago)
im 13 and im not a virgin and me and my girl been dating for 8 months and i lost it 3 days ago and i think it was the right choice
jake hagel (8 days ago)
it's a bit sad but no one really looses their virginity to some one they really care about.
Otto Vuorio (9 days ago)
Being an adult virgin nowadays is like pretending not to be a jew while being around nazi's.
giorgi abesadze (9 days ago)
You got it fucking take it bitch
WILSON (10 days ago)
I wish I was a virgin. Females ruined my life....I also did the same
Chris Ordinola (10 days ago)
I lost my virginity at age 20! Don’t feel mad it comes naturally also don’t ever pressure the girl or woman to have sex with you. If you do failure is certain. It comes naturally when you’re dating someone. If you’re just out looking for some action good luck! Have a lot of confidence in you’re self in who you are moms raised a soldier not a bitch!!! Good luck to you the virgins.
x RaSoR (10 days ago)
im 19 and lost my virginity with 17 and im proud of it!
Zafir Uzoma (11 days ago)
Nobody dies a virgin, life fucks us all
Frederik Olivier (11 days ago)
Respect💪
I lost mine at 17😁😂
Charlie Thurston (11 days ago)
Lost my virginity at 15 to a whore
plato (12 days ago)
Now THIS IS a true alpha.
Riley de Amaru (13 days ago)
What kind of retard thinks like this...
Gaming Monkey (13 days ago)
There are two answers people give when you ask if they’ve had sex. A. “Yes” B. “Can’t be saying that now”
Kyle Noe (14 days ago)
I was 19 when I lost my v card.
Suomalainen Varis (14 days ago)
If I could just squander no single thought nor let me be disturbed by such a thing, I wouldn't even care if I die as a virgin. Rather, I'd be focusing more on other aspects of my life. Any tips on how to be OK with being a virgin?
Jan Fricke (15 days ago)
I am 14 and still virgin and I am not joking. All my friends already lost it and I really would like to lose it till 15 .
Spirit Song (16 days ago)
Reported.
Eat Shiit (16 days ago)
im a 29 year old virgin
David Lamont (16 days ago)
I'm a 13 year old en am no a virgin no joke
Jonas Mosgaard (17 days ago)
When it happens, it happens. No need to rush it.
The Rooster (17 days ago)
I never had a girlfriend or kissed a girl or sex I have a lot of chicks at high school wanting to fuck me and even touching me and shit but I guess I’m waiting for the right women. Good things happen when you take things slow.
my play peter (17 days ago)
12 I saw 8 and 10 years old banging damn I'm still looking for my girl lol
dzemo a. (17 days ago)
_Alpha is better father than my biological father._ This is the topic that no one in my family talked with me about in my puberty. *_Thank you Alpha!_*
D 6 (18 days ago)
everyone is talking about how old they are and never had a gf... I'm 11 and i already have an ex
Ayush Kumar (20 days ago)
I'm also virgin till now
kicking every Thang (20 days ago)
Thank you ☺️ I now don’t worry about it now and will tell my friends the truth of who I am and what I’m about and that these females most of them don’t deserve my seed :) thank you man I felt ashamed a bit and now I don’t thank you so MUCH 🙏🏼
Moldy (20 days ago)
*VIRGINITY ROCKS* 👍
one dolla snake (11 days ago)
Moldy no
LiquidGamingChannel (21 days ago)
Back then, children think about how to negotiate to their "enemies" so that they could play together. But many children now think about how to get laid.
RosPat (21 days ago)
What’s a virginity
Legiontd Legiontd (22 days ago)
For me sex is kind of meh.
M Tomo (22 days ago)
Whatever happened to CHASTITY
Michlep (22 days ago)
lmao, I was literally about to do what you did. I was thinking about messaging that girl that I really dont fancy and I know i would bang bang. But i wont. cheers boi
Fujtajblus (22 days ago)
I dont care about it really... what concerns me is that I keep running into chicks who just want to hook up or have a short term relationship or fuck on a first date if I do not want to do that... If I do not show them in some way that I want my dick inside them (preferably in first 15 minutes), they just ghost me. Like.. I have things I need to work on.. my "women skills" are not that sharp lately, but still.
Pissed Off Billie (23 days ago)
I honestly plan to be ‘The Forty Year Old Virgin.’
Apis Zaid (24 days ago)
So, Alpha M is virgin before huh? 😏
Colton Bennion (24 days ago)
I’m 14 and just started talking to a shortie. Got her IG just yesterday, right before the Christmas break, and after like 120 mins of me waiting after after school, I messaged her and she replied like 👏. Good signs I think but idk
Depressed Guy (25 days ago)
Virgin = You are Special.
Big Broccoli (25 days ago)
Man, I'm almost 21 and the only women I've kissed so farth are Marry Jane and Lucy. Now, I'm absolutely head over heals and this girl is leaving after just 1 semester, man, she is soo awesome. And all I do is get stoned and watch YouTube, man, I wana di something!
Uber Super Everything (26 days ago)
Yeah, I'm 68, I think I might lose my virginity next year. ;)
Jason Spataro (27 days ago)
I needed that, thanks alpha im on the right path
Justin fight (27 days ago)
I lost my virginity at 14 and I have to say really honestly I wish I had waited. I'm a guy and it was really unenjoyable and even painful. I would say 18 or even later is better, I'm not ashamed that I lost it early, but when I talk to young people I tend to point them in the direction of waiting. Do other stuff, but the sex stuff should be at least reserved for college imo. Sex should be enjoyable and the participants should know what they're doing at least somewhat.
mrbrockpeters (28 days ago)
I’m a 38 year old virgin but whack off like 4 times a day.
I’m ugly (28 days ago)
I’m 5 years old and I’m still a virgin all my friend lost my virginity
your stranger lover (30 days ago)
I'm so Virgin that my parents think im gay, that's fkd up
your stranger lover (16 days ago)
+Jo Blow HAHAHA lol how old are u tho? I'm 15 and never had had one :c
dildar serbilind (30 days ago)
20 yo and still virgin i'm saving it 4 my furture wife
SWIZZ 77 (1 month ago)
I'm 6 and I've lost my viginitials
teppolundgren (1 month ago)
18, huh? Wow.......what a failure. I'm 41 personally and have yet to do the deed. Not that I will.That ship sank before it sailed. But I wanted to at least leave a comment and point out howsilly it is for someone to give sex advice, when they had no problem finding dates at a young age.If I could get even one date, I'd have a chance. And if I could get one date, chances are that I could get two.But when you're rejected from the start, it's a completely different situation. And I'm not sure if you understand that.
Parteek Chawla (1 month ago)
I hope that girl don't catch your video dude😂
ethun (1 month ago)
this fat girl i was trying to pity fuck came within 30 minutes to coming over to my house while no one was home, and something inside me said this is wrong, give it up, you will regret this for the rest of your life; and only a few days later I met the girl im talking to now, and I really want to take things slow and when the time comes, we have both established we want our first times to be with eachother. Thanks again for your alpha male tips brozay
muhamat aliyev (1 month ago)
16 years old and not a virgin #pussygettergang
Wild Heart (1 month ago)
Sex doesn't count with a condom. So if you think you're a badass because you had sex with a hooker at a young age but used a condom.. I've got bad news for you.. you're still a virgin. There literally is no touching with a condom. They're basically teasing you when they make you wear a condom then they will go and fk another dude without a condom so that means that dude got to have sex with her first bc he didnt wear a condom and you did.
BasicHaddock4 (1 month ago)
Im still a virgin and never kissed a girl
shantavanee (1 month ago)
It’s okay 👌🏽 I’ve never been kissed or touched in anyway and I’m not loosing any sleep over it. Be faithfully patient and all will be well😉
Hey There (1 month ago)
This dude also watches porn thou?
Phillip Walton (1 month ago)
I’m 15 and still a virgin it sucks
Me to
ArkaBahçe (1 month ago)
I am a 40 year old virgin
Alright thank god i found it three years later tho... And its turned to be useful
Joshua Gutierrez (1 month ago)
Every one has always told me this not to lose it to someone that you don’t even care about and I’m 18 and so far I’ve had 2 chances to lose my shit but honestly I think I might just wait for a person I really want to lose it to
SHLA PAR (1 month ago)
55 year old virgin.. nobody will take my purity... NOBODY
jas dhanjal (1 month ago)
Losing virginity doesn’t make u a man,and it’s not even a sign of achievement
EYE CATCHING (1 month ago)
Alpha i think u just lied about your virginity story
Troubled INTJ (1 month ago)
Hhh I like that you have a STD informative video link first thing in your description area. The key is to stop the spreading of STD, who cares about virginity. :))))
Fenrir (1 month ago)
20 years of age and still a virgin. Only one I know of that still is within my cirlce of friends. I'm good looking, I know I am I get plenty of feedback, I'm charming, funny and all that good stuff. Only problem I dont like people. I'm as introverted as heck, not in a low self-esteem way but just in 'I dont like people' They annoy me in every possible way. So meeting new people is not a challenge because I'm shy or anything but because I'd have to leave my save-space. That being said I actually dont really care about my sexual life. If some day something happens well then something happens. Be it the right one. Until that day, I'll continue to touch myself. Party on!
Tater Cake (1 month ago)
I’m a 27 year old virgin. It’s probably too late for me
Counterculture Trash (1 month ago)
Thanks a lot, YouTube Recommended.
I look at it this way; can you or can't you have sex. I'd rather be the guy who can turn down sex over the guy who won't have a chance in hell. Suppose you can say celibacy or the new term incel arethe two extremes to describe having sex or not. A guy who has dated girls and maybe less than a handful came on to you, but you chose to say no in my opinion is far more satisfying the the guy who approaches a girl to be shot down, shot down, and shot down. Suppose this topic is very much different from one to another. Long story short. Can you turn down sex or be dated or can you not and options are far and wide between.
Ezequiel Garcia (1 month ago)
What is your gmail
Cameron Rotten Lemon (1 month ago)
18 and never kissed
viktor karsum (1 month ago)
Im 17 an a Virgin an im the last in my grup and this helpt a lot
Landon Johnson (1 month ago)
We live in a society
Sawako (1 month ago)
I can't lose virginity, because I never lose.
Matt Tikar (1 month ago)
Being virgin is rare and makes you more Valuable and I'm proud of myself. Safe your virginity for the "One" #Peace
That's So Sonya (1 month ago)
Your body, your choice. Your genitals, your voice. Don't let people rush you with their timelines 🙌
Purrrfection (1 month ago)
Hand will always be there...
charles charles (1 month ago)
IM 49 AND STILL VIRGIN!
yung nufassa (1 month ago)
I lost it at 13 ...........I'm 14 now but I did it the same reason u did I regret it now cuz I didn't like her I just wanted to do it
Josh Holt (1 month ago)
i have a deep respect for you and your channel. thanks for speaking the truth :)

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