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I'm A Virgin | Let's Talk About Sex, Virginity, And Confidence

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STD Video: http://www.iamalpham.com/index.php/topics/stds-knowing-the-risk-and-reality/ Alpha M. Confidence Course: http://www.iamalpham.com/index.php/topics/alpha-m-confidence-course/ Subscribe To Alpha M. https://www.youtube.com/user/AlphaMconsulting?sub_confirmation=1 My Website: http://www.iamalpham.com My Services and Products: http://www.aaronmarino.com Alpha M. App: http://www.alphamapp.com/ Best Hair Product: http://www.peteandpedro.com Free Hairstyle E-Book: http://http://www.iamalpham.com/ezine Pete & Pedro: http://www.peteandpedro.com FaceBook: https://www.facebook.com/IAmAlphaM In this video men's style, grooming, fitness and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino of http://www.iamalpham.com http://www.aaronmarino.com and http://www.peteandpedro.com, talks about sex, virginity and confidence. So, the other day Alpha got an email from an 18 year old virgin whose confidence is being affected because he thinks that women aren't going to be interested due to his lack of sexual experience. Alpha issues a disclaimer that he's not recommending premarital sex and not a sex or relationship expert. He just has had an applicable experience. Alpha tells his story about his virginity and how he first had sex which was uneventful and a disappointment. He regretted it because he wished it was with someone he cared about. He also talks about society, social media, and how sex is portrayed currently. He thinks that sex should not be shared casually. It's special and should be shared with someone you love. Your virginity is not something that you lose. It's a gift you give away-- and you can only give it away one time! You don't need to worry about what others are doing or reporting on social media. Having sex doesn't make you cool. Let it happen naturally. When it happens, it happens. In the meantime, build yourself to the best person you can. Sex can have lots of repercussions. And if someone doesn't want to date you because you are a virgin or you want to remain a virgin, they aren't worthy of your gift
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Green Bastard (11 minutes ago)
You hear that SARAH you’re worthy of my GIFT!
Clay White (6 hours ago)
Dont be like Elliot Rodgers Guys
Clay White (6 hours ago)
Im Losing my Virginity In The Summer Of 2019 at the beginning of 16 years old, and Im Losing it to a Girl that is also a virgin and Shes The Best Girl Ever, and we planned where and when so Oof. HOW Lucky Am I
JayDog (1 day ago)
im a 24 yr old virgin, I think I may have made a big mistake by letting this happen to me.
MissLadyG99 (1 day ago)
Keeping living you will find out that others are making worse mistakes than remaining a virgin. I'm sure their are men/boys who are AIDS patients that would gladly trade places with you. No sex in the world is worth losing your life and health over.
The Blender Arsenal (1 day ago)
21 year old virgin here. It's a bit of an ego-bruiser, and it doesn't help my confidence. Or rather, lack thereof. Never dated either. And it's not like I haven't tried. Every girl I approach shoots me down faster than a bullet. It's hard not to think there's something wrong with you when girls say no at every turn. Once, I even tried to chat up the 'school slut,' if you will, and even she laughed in my face. Seriously? A girl with standards lower than the ground, and even she shoots me down because, somehow, I don't fit them. How else am I supposed to take that???
Tyler Clark (2 days ago)
Fake it till you make it boys. If you’re not confident then pretend you are and it will come!! You will have learn to step out of your box eventually start now
Digital2Pulse (2 days ago)
Don't worry guys Master Chief is a virgin
Tenny (6 days ago)
All these Beta Males. Get good kids, get laid already.
Fjorald Cacaj (8 days ago)
You're a virgin? I swear you're like 40 years old, you still believe that you shouldn't have sex before marriage, what is this the 17th century
NaimishTank Music (11 days ago)
I love the way you think and i feel the same way about sex..
Blake The Human Cat (15 days ago)
18 years old? I'm 23 and still a virgin. I would rather wait for the right woman rather than some filthy whore
Spec trum (16 days ago)
Dude... I masturbated alot of times. I watched thousands of porn videos and i know everything about this now tell ME I never been with girl never had sex so... Am i virgin even after masturbation?
koolwhip 64 (16 days ago)
I respect this man so much
Arturo Barrios (16 days ago)
I'm letting it happen naturally and I'm about to be 30 lol. I'm not a bad looking guy either, shit. 😂
xDreamer (4 days ago)
Arturo Barrios dude just go on tinder bruh it's time fuck that
Chris Hermosura (21 days ago)
This quickly turned in that whkme abstinence talk they gave us in middle school.
Chris Hermosura (21 days ago)
18 year old? That’s cute. Lol:
issei san (24 days ago)
We muslims can't loose our virginity until we get married 😭😭
Mr mc E (26 days ago)
I'm 8 and not a virgin
Stefan F (28 days ago)
I have a big nose,and I am not confident with girls...hope my nose isn’t growing anymore and go talk with girls😞
Mr mc E (26 days ago)
my nose is nice
Echo Space (29 days ago)
I’m 14 and a virgin
Jonah T (30 days ago)
19 years old, first girlfriend was very sex forward. She dumped me because I wanted to wait.
xDreamer (4 days ago)
Jonah T bro not sure if your for real but that shit happened to me. I waited to long and she left and got it somewhere else. Just shoot ya shot next time
Will Kershaw (27 days ago)
Jonah T She obviously was the wrong one. Good thing it ended quickly.
I'm 14 not a virgin becuase of my extremely low standards
the_G_killer (1 month ago)
15 still no gf that kissed me i just had 1 gf but we didnt kiss
Mr mc E (26 days ago)
Bruh I'm 13 and have kissed someone BB GUN LOOKIN BEDBASS
Emanuel Burgh (1 month ago)
Everyone who lost their virginity and feel like they damn accomplished something. If you fucked an ugly bitch just to brag that you are not a virgin anymore you're a loser. In college I saw everyone having ugly bitches over into their dorm probably to fuck them.
Mr mc E (26 days ago)
You're a loser for calling woman ugly bitches
Zacky tacky (1 month ago)
Does your uncle count?
Mr mc E (26 days ago)
What about ur cousin
In conclusion date an ugly chick until she opens your legs
Brandon Mooney (1 month ago)
I’m 18 (well, almost) and I’m still a virgin. I go both ways. I have never had sex, but that’s not to say that someone has never had sex with me
Lil Wayne Young blood (1 month ago)
Ha!! I lost my virginity at 14!!
Mr mc E (26 days ago)
Sureeee
Grease_witherspoon (1 month ago)
I am 30 and I have had sex
Balance and Composure (1 month ago)
Porn is the devil & I'm not even religious.
RARA F.I.B (1 month ago)
I’m 17 and still fresh in the box 📦
andrei mujdei (1 month ago)
I never lost my virginity because I never lose!
Iffy Edem (1 month ago)
I’m 18 and still a virgin(I received my first kiss this year, and my second partial bj) but I’m fine with being one. I’m going to college in five months soo if I loose it there , eh who cares 🤷🏻‍♀️
Will Kershaw (27 days ago)
Iffy Edem I’m in the exact same boat as you brother
M'hamed Raboudi (1 month ago)
I am a 13 still a virgin. Fuck
Jonathan Yepez (1 month ago)
I’m 19 and I’m a Virgin and never had my first kiss
SHUBHAM KANYAL (1 month ago)
"Giving the gift to someone who deserves it" 👍👍I like it
Deni Cnex (1 month ago)
My first time was being raped. I feel the same down there. But Heartbroken and mentally it affected me a lot.
Jay Dawg (1 month ago)
I've kissed and had a girlfriend but still a virgin 💪
Masu Goupil (1 month ago)
Alphas outfit today is shit ngl
Aryan Kumar (1 month ago)
01:15
kimisho soup (1 month ago)
Guys sex is nice but !!!!! You are not missing out on much lol just let it come naturally dont beat yourself up if you are a V
Caleb Price (1 month ago)
I’m dead. Still looking for the right ghost to give it to.
Tank The Pitbull (1 month ago)
I lost my virginity to a prostitute at 19.
Will Kershaw (27 days ago)
Tank The Pitbull atta boy
TML 913416 (1 month ago)
Im an 18 going on 19 year old virgin, idk what to do if I should lose it or keep it. Plus I have never had a girlfriend.. :/
Cesar Castillo (1 month ago)
Being 40 and a virgin wasn’t easy. My life sucked And i was miserable. I’d think to my self “how am I this old and a virgin”? But then I bought some teige Hanley. And now I get laid everyday. Thank you teige Hanley. c:
Maria C (1 month ago)
I went out of my way to avoid sex during my secondary and tertiary educational years. It did nothing to ruin my confidence. I knew guys that age were mostly looking for learning experiences and bragging rights.
Jay Jade (3 days ago)
Finally, a whore in the comment section.
Anvit shetty (1 month ago)
I’m 17 and Never had a GF! I never Kissed anyone nor Had Sex🤦🏼‍♂️😂
demon6937 (1 month ago)
26 and still virgin my friends are not I'm not good with women.
Adam T-Road (1 month ago)
Wtf are you wearing first ???
Fat CJ (1 month ago)
I knew it
Hungur Gaming (1 month ago)
I am 14... What am i doing here? 😂😂
SokE Cool (1 month ago)
Is masturbate lose your virgin
Fallen AngelBlack (1 month ago)
Thank you, just, tank you
Marvellousdeath115 (1 month ago)
20 year old virgin here. I’m happy I’m a Shia Muslim. I’ve had over 10 women want me, but I didn’t want them. I didn’t want to settle for less than what I deserve, and you shouldn’t either. A true King/Queen shouldn’t settle for a princess/prince, cuz they’re not at your level, no matter how high they seem to be.
Humble Wonder (1 month ago)
Mad respect for you bru Great message
Kristupas LTU (1 month ago)
Should I date the girl who really likes me, but I don't like her that much. I'm asking because I'm 17 years old and never had a date... Should I practice dating, talking (and possibly kissing) on that girl?
Channel Energy (1 month ago)
Do it see what' up
Kamaro3XVII (1 month ago)
Lost my virginity to a fine ass blonde escort with a killer body paid $70 bucks for an hour and boy did she know how to rock my world. Best $70 dollar spends I ever spent in my life.
InfiniteWarr1or (2 months ago)
Gave it away when i was 20, although she wasn't anything special :)
Xavage Boy (2 months ago)
I am virgin but I have my hands
Thomas Ryan (2 months ago)
What I have noticed is that virgins before marriage tend to come from a more stable family structure, while those who have a lot of sex before marriage tend to have more family issues/ lack of connection. Virgins don't hate yourselves, because your family loves you and your commitment to waiting is a good sign of future success in marriage and family connection. Virginity is a gift you give once! Save it for the right person.
Jay Elston (2 months ago)
Everyone should do what they believe is best for them. If someone wants to wait, it's up to that person and it isn't anyone else's business - period.
S U P R E 〽 E (2 months ago)
First time having sex the girl said “Are you sure you’re a virgin” I WATCHED WAY TOO MUCH PORN I KNO WHAT IM DOING GIRL LMAO
Alex Diaz (2 months ago)
I am glad I lost it before 30, let alone 40. Lost mine at 28 and I'm much happier than not having sex.
First Name Last Name (2 months ago)
I'm 2,045 years old and still a virgin. Name? Ha! Perhaps you know it already: Ahasver. Yep. It's all true just don't remind me. Should I remind you how it happened? How I mocked Jesus on the cross. And how then and there he cursed me to walk the earth forever until His return. Damn this earth! Jesus come quickly! Save me that cursed wandering Jew, Ahasver, from this rock imprisonment! I've been to every nation earth 1,000 times over and still am I no closer to accepting your free gift of salvation! Have you made my heart cold in order that I may suffer longer?
Nathan Pedneault (2 months ago)
Great vid, I'm a Christian and believe that it should happen after marriage, and it should mean something .
Daniel Hooper (2 months ago)
premarital sex is the best sex to have when losing it
Adam Aston (2 months ago)
I'm 19 and still a virgin, I'm one off them people who wanna wait for the right person
Lmao I never had anyone in my life let alone anyone who I can text. Virginity is expensive than a Rolex nowadays.
Outlaw (2 months ago)
I haven’t lost my virginity yet, you know why? Cuz I never lose 😁
Black Onyx (2 months ago)
Fucking stupid girls in high school get fucked at least once. Hard to find a girl who’s a Virgin after high school and nonexistent after college. What sucks is, these girls won’t fully mature until they’re in their mid-20’s. I think of it like this. High school girl is a brand new BMW with no miles. At about 25 years old. She’s got wear and tear and 75,000 miles on the odometer. Not the kind of car you want but that’s the majority.
Zabeer Hossain (2 months ago)
HOW THE HECK DOES YOUTUBE KNOW I'M TURNING 18 AND I'M A VIRGIN !!!
CHHIREE SHERPA (2 months ago)
Not something you loose... something you give!!😤😁🤣😂
CHHIREE SHERPA (2 months ago)
Yep ...a virgin........no girlfriend 😫
Olympus Healer (2 months ago)
Tnx. now im able to continue life
Luis Gracia (2 months ago)
I have yet to give my virginity and I’m gonna be 30 soon. Im in it for love, and promiscuity has killed love.
Luis Gracia (2 months ago)
Virginity is the only social sexual taboo! And it should be no stigma to be a virgin at 18
Jellyfish60 (2 months ago)
18? Pff I can barely remember anything meaningful from my teen yeas. Lost it to a prostitute at 21 and in the last 7 years had 3 long term relationships.
KowboyM (2 months ago)
Hey Alpha u and I hav the same story, I shoulda waited too, normally I wouldn’t giv in to peer pressure but that time I did :/
BONG SONG LYRICS (2 months ago)
I was thinking can we call us virgin if we musterbate?
BONG SONG LYRICS (2 months ago)
I'm a 21 year old guy and i'm still virgin. I thought I'm the only one but thankfully now I know there is more people like me
jelly fish (2 months ago)
"I'm a guy with a video camera and a big mouth"
Domo (2 months ago)
I'm 1379 years old and I'm still a virgin
grim reaper (2 months ago)
Anyone seen the movie The 40 year old virgin so
Blueschy (2 months ago)
It's never going to happen with me
leblblb (2 months ago)
I fucked a really fat ugly bitch for a really cheap price. She was also on her period. It was very gross but I proud of myself. I never had a girlfriend and wanted to feel what sex is. Shit is not important. You understand it when you are really alone.
Jack Heltzel (2 months ago)
42, hetero-virgin...lol
Nikos Guf (2 months ago)
I am 20 lol
Lakersfan332 (2 months ago)
“When it happens let it happen” but I’m gonna be a virgin my entire life?
R3V1V3R (2 months ago)
i just know i will never lose it, i am WAY too ugly to...
Real shit tho i almost fucked my substitute teacher back in 5th grade, man i wish i didn’t pussy out. SHE WAS FINE ASF
i lost my virginity to a toaster oh yeah yeah
pernada boriusz (2 months ago)
I am a virgin loser
Anthony Cruz (2 months ago)
I'm a 14 year old boy and lost my virginity recently lost my virginity to a guy that I didn't like. Don't lose it young, and especially to someone you aren't in love with.
Bett Ronald (2 months ago)
I am 24 years old
Raúl Aragón (2 months ago)
I'm 21 and virgin, that kind of sucks.
JoshDezigns (2 months ago)
Watching video in target bathroom at glory hole will tell if the thick bitches came thru
Joshua Salinas (2 months ago)
Took my gf's virginity yesterday, we love each other very much. I wish she would've been the one I lost it to tho. She is my best friend, we aren't married yet, but we will be in time.
Alex Alonzo (2 months ago)
I’m 14 and this girl who thot I was hot asked if I wanted to have a threesome, and I ain’t no homosexual so I said no, but then I realized I missed my opportunity because the other person was her hot friend
Сергей Гавел (2 months ago)
I lost my vrginity at 14 with girl much older than me. Now I'm 26 and had about 50 partners maybe...but you know what? It was only about my ego. With time I understand only feelings make a sex great. So boys my advise is look for your soul mate while f4k1ng everybody around you XD
Spencer Strickland (3 months ago)
I love you Alpha. Your story is just like mine. (The only difference is it was with a guy.) I'll stay subscribed to you forever because of this video and your honesty.

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